Growth is Good!

When we’re young, were expected to be carefree. We start making friends, experiencing more things all while making a lot of irresponsible decisions. But as the years go by, we outgrow that phase. We no longer engage in things we once did, the things that separates us from being a child and adult.

Often times we outgrow people we thought would be around for a lifetime. The truth is.. that’s perfectly fine. Your allowed to outgrow people. It doesn’t mean you don’t love them. That transforming experience is what breaks barriers and create more positive outcomes in life.

As you mature into the person you are meant to be, everyone from your past does not hold a spot. Sometimes the hardest part of growing is accepting the fact that you have to shed all the toxic relationships. In most cases, the toxic relationships you hold on to are the ones you need to let go of the most. When you begin to set aside time to practice being the best version of you some things in your reality shift.

• If the conversation feels forced it most likely is. While conversing used to be fluent and easy it’s now awkward.
• You don’t feel emotionally or intellectually challenged. You see the conversation as nonchalant and of no interest.
• Feel bored around them. You find yourself thinking of other exciting things you could be doing. You’re never in the moment.
• You Crave new friends. You old friends just aren’t giving you the extra push you need to vibrate higher.
• The only thing you have in common is the past. When sharing future plans and goals their is no real connection.
• You’re in different seasons of life.

When in the process of growing you want to surround yourself around people you can grow from. Being around people who do not motivate you to want more in all aspect of life will not help you grow. People who take offense to your growth are people you’ve needed to separate yourself from. For every loss is always a gain!

You attract people into your life because they were a vibrational match at that particular time. They reflected parts of yourself back to you. However when you grow and evolve unless they’ve done the same your connection will begin to fade. We often hold our self back from growing over responsibility and fear. That serves no one.. neither you nor them!

So if you are feeling at a place where you feel yourself becoming distant, accept it. Know that it is nothing wrong with distance. Understand everything is for the better. Say goodbye to all the old friends, jobs, places and more as well as acknowledging the role they played in your soul’s evolution and journey. Even though the form of things may change, the love can remain forever!x